Thursday, June 27, 2013

心灵驿站-01


- 事物本身如何不重要,重要的是如何看待它们。-


有一位心理学家找来两个七岁的小孩进行一项心理测验。

汤姆是来自一个贫穷人家的孩子,家里有六个兄弟;
安迪则是一个家境富裕的医生独子。

心理学家叫两个孩子看一幅图画,画里是一个小兔子坐在餐桌旁边哭,兔妈妈则板着脸孔站在一旁,于是心理学家叫他们把画中的意思说出来。

汤姆立刻说:“小兔子在哭是因为它没吃饱,还想要东西吃,但是家里已没有东西吃了,而兔妈妈觉得很难过。”
安迪接着说:“不是这样的,它哭是因为它已经不想再吃东西了,但它妈妈还硬强迫它非吃下去不可!”

- 完毕 -


处在什么样的环境,就习惯用什么样的角度看事情。而每一件事情从不同的角度来看时,总会有不同的体验。所谓见仁见智,有些事情并不一定是对或错,而是因为眼光不同,看法也就不一样。有时候,我们得学会处在他人的角度想一想,也许我们就不会想不开了。

Friday, January 25, 2013

疤痕·

爱到亲人,才是永恒。
这句话很有意思。

1月23日,
我会牢牢地记得这一天所发生的事情。
你的表情,
你的反应,
你的举动,
你的挽留。

无法形容的疼,流不尽的眼泪,
你伤得我很痛。

种种的情况,
我知道,我回不了头,你已经完完全全的进入了我的世界。
我深信命运,我相信这个世界有因果循环。
所以我怕,我不要历史重演。
请别让我的眼泪白流,别考验我的耐性,
更别挑战我对你之间的信任。
机会,我给了,
要不要珍惜,那不是在我的控制范围里。


有些时候,知道得少,生活会简单些。
至少没有猜疑。




Tuesday, November 13, 2012

答案













当你感觉 家不再是你的避风港
是什么感受 ?
当你以为他们都会支持你 但却原来是自己多想
又是什么感受 ?


我很爱我的家
但不知道为什么今天的我 感受不到家的感觉
我找不到答案 
只能分享 
很想告诉他我的烦恼 我的忧愁
但却没能开口


忍气吞声 是唯一能解决的方法
往积极的方向想
告诉自己一切都会安好
也许 有的时候 把它们都放进心里埋藏起来 比起分享与他人会好很多。

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

PaintTheSkyRed.










Guess what! I joined AirAsia Airline to be a flight attendant.
A brand new life is going to start soon?
Yes i think so!

In fact, I love..I love what am I having now.
I think I'm doing the right things perhaps!
I can imagine the future ,I got the scenario! yet I don't want to look back anymore! I'm just can't lift my head up and be proud of it!
There's a flaw in my life instead and I'm not going to forget it but overcome it!

That's good to know new friends,
Some of them are just so nice and kind! You know what, not everyone can share their things to other even me myself. 
But they do. So it's good to learn from them! :)

So far.. I love Mr. Booven's class! He is a good speaker, a very good instructor!
He will never let you feel sleepy during his class! He will try to give us some mini fun games to wake us up!xD
He was my "speak up" class's instructor!
Before the class, I was effin nervous since when I heard my friend- Scha, who are from the other batch told me that during the speak up class we have to talk in public and one more session is given us 3 minutes to talk by picking a random topic from a box!
Haha! It was just so freaking fun man! My speech was talk about pets! I think I'm consider as the lucky one? haha.. I have no idea what should I start my speech yet I did done the speech for more than 3 minutes! I can't even recall back the speech, what the hell I spoke for that 3 minutes? xD
Anyways, I did it!
What's next!?
Okay, this was the more easier than the previous stage for me. My instructor gave us some times to think about the speech for 5 minutes and this time we can decide what we want to talk!
I chose to story telling and I going to talk about my family. so I put my topic as My family.

During the preparation, I don't have to memorize it since it was my true story and I think everything is going well. I just followed what my instructor told me to set an introduction, 3 main points, and closing. That's it.
I'm the third person to present it and you know what my hands were shivering!
By the way, once i started , my nervousness was getting calm and calm and one thing that i couldn't expected was I cried! I cried during my speech! Damn, this was so embarrassing when everyone looking at you and waiting for you to continue your speech. I tried my best to control my tears and I tried to finish my story as well.
I got a big big claps from my batchmates after I ended my story and my instructor came in front of me to give me a "high five"!
And guess what! my friends were cried too! OMG, how come! You know what, the feeling was actually damn freaking great when i saw they cried with me! *devil smile* haha! It's because i knew they were seriously listened to my story and that's why they got themselves in that shit and there's doesn't matter even we actually just know each other like about 2 weeks! Anyways, my instructor told me that next time not to tell those story that too emotional unless I can manage it well. =*
I'm looking forward to my speak up class Day 2! hehe! it will be more and more fun i guess.

0100 .. time passed so fast! Gonna get my ass off and It's time to sleep ady! Nanight peeps and my love.:)











Friday, October 5, 2012

05.10.2012 : Think twice.

Waiting..waiting..and waiting..
Whether it's success or fail, can just let me know? instead of wasting my time to wait for the so called Golden Call.. lol..

Lost the direction.
yet the world is full of fun right?
Be an optimist , 
think positive, look forward , 
and live with hopes.
One day, you will see..


So much of conflicts between us recently.
Different thoughts? or I shouldn't be too stubborn sometime.. somehow..
Regret didn't talk nicely before he get off from my car. 
At the end, only can watched him from the side mirror.
And now he is in Jakarta.
I wonder why.
Yet I love Today's morning! 
i mean before the "something" happened. LOL~
Anyways, I do miss him so much! :(



Monday, August 6, 2012

AuguStress.

That feeling is coming ! In fact, I can definitely feel it..kinda strong.. yeap. NOW!
It's too late i know.
And
I can even feel the stress!
August! The month that I most worry so far,
I needa move my lazy ass on!
I need some lucks.
I need lots of motivation.
so that I could be able to handle it all.
Stop being lazy, Eu! yeap It's EU!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Remind.Myself.













Not much to say!
Just hmm.. I feel like wanna share my feeling right now.
cause it's awesome!
Every single word you said, 
I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Everything is perfect.